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Learn how to thrive - not just survive - without having to quit your job

Stone Tower
Are you a first responder that wants more from life?
There's a general feeling amongst first responders that being unhappy is expected. We deal with the absolute worst in humanity. So we tell ourselves that it's no wonder why we're unhappy - look at what we deal with every.. single.. day. But just because we can justify being unhappy, doesn't mean we're condemned to it. You still have the choice. You can choose to live a happier, more fulfilling life. I can help you live a happier, more fulfilling life.
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Upgrade your life in every way
The way we do one thing, is how we do everything. That's why, when you improve one area of your life, then other areas improve as well. Whether you want to focus on stress management, relationships, money, time management, weight loss, creating/achieving goals.. you can have it. All of it. I can show you how.
Pebble Beach

You're not unique (and that's a good thing)

You might be thinking, “that might work for some people, but I'm different – it won't work for me”. I'm here to tell you that you're not special ;) everyone has the same brain – and they all work the same way. Every aspect of your life can be broken down into a very simple equation (aka the Model) involving thoughts, feelings, and actions. So, even if you think you're a hot mess, changing your life is as simple as 1+1+1 = 3. I can teach you the Model so you can change any aspect of your life.

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Happiness is just a feeling

 

Once you realize that all of the negative emotions you are trying to avoid (stress, overwhelm, worry, anxiety, tired, etc.) are just feelings, then you can use the Model to figure out why you're feeling that way. The first step to fix something is to identify the problem. The emotions you want to feel (happiness, joy, calm, etc.) are also just feelings, which means they aren't out of your grasp – you just need to adjust your Model.

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So is life coaching just about feeling better?

 

No, everything that you do (or don't do) is due to the feelings driving those actions (or inactions).

Ever try to change your life by changing your actions? Dieting, waking up early, budgeting, etc. You probably felt motivated at first, but then stopped doing these actions shortly after starting (think: New Years' Resolutions).

 

This is where I come in.

 

I help you understand your brain and change your mindset so you actually WANT to make those changes in your life. Then, even your own brain can't stop you.

"Life Coaching With Wayne is encouraging, rewarding, and leads to great success! Wayne has continuously encouraged me to rewire my thoughts and feelings on my circumstances to better my actions and end results. Wayne coaches me on new ways to think; thus, in turn, rewarding me with a new positive way to be."
                                                                                                   - Kelli S.